Images via Endlisnis, Scott: How do we determine if a woman is straight or not? Do they have to have short hair? A tattoo of a vagina on their forearm? Do our lesbian microchips have to set off the scanner at the door? From blogger Zach Rosen’s “A Girl’s Guide to Attending A Gay Bar” in If you treat my safe space like your zoo, I will seduce your fiance while you’re out selecting stationary.” Fawning over couples as being “soooo cute” comes off as condescension at best and overcompensation at worst.Īnd if you take away one thing from this article, let it be this: keep your fucking bachelorette party out of our bars. Do not use us as as fonts of information about all gay men, either in general or at that bar. Don’t overshare-your bodies and your sex lives aren’t necessarily of interest to us. The summation is that if if you think gay men can give you something that straight men can’t, you are in the wrong place.įollow grade-school levels of decorum around strangers and you’ll be fine. Most of those I’ve laid out in previous articles. For every woman who just wants to grab a drink with her homo friends or legitimately likes the music, there are sixty more who show up for all the wrong reasons.
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